“Your task is not seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” Rumi
Everything that shows up in our lives experiences, people, and opportunities is a reflection of our inner beliefs. Â We attract experiences that are consistent with our beliefs. Understanding what you believe about yourself, relationships and finding love is a very important process to attracting TRUE LOVE. Â Awakening your heart to love is a juicy concept to me! Â I coach lots of women and men who want love in their lives. I’m talking about the real deal kind of love. Â What you believe about yourself and finding love? Â It’s important to understand your limiting beliefs. Â Do you hear yourself say “I’m ready for some awesome love in my life,” and than you hear yourself say “ya right who’s going to want me and all my baggage?” Â Read below, which limiting beliefs resonate with you?
Relationships are a lot of work, time consuming and draining
I’m too fat to date
I have too much baggage
I don’t even know how to date
All the good ones are taken
I’m too successful
I’m too busy to date
Who would be interested in me?
I could never tell about my past
There aren’t any good men in this state
I am alone
I am unlovable
I will always be abandoned
My body is defective
If you’ve identified with even just one limiting belief on this list, you may have a love block. If we believe there is plenty of love in the world that we are worthy of love giving and receiving it. Â We attract a different kind of love (real deep true love) than if we are attracting from a place of fear, doubt and scarcity. Â Believing and knowing you are worthy of love is key to attracting the love you want. Â When our belief’s conflict with our desires we actually block real deep true love from coming into our lives. Â For example; if one part of you is saying, “I deserve a great relationship”, but another part of you believes and says, “I’ll never find him or her” you lose the ability to see that loves exists all around you.Â Â If you don’t believe with a 100% certainty that you deserve love and that it is available to you, you will get the same love results as you always have. Â If you want to attract the love of your life, you can take the first step, which is to dissolve you’re limiting beliefs and start to remove the love block. Â
Here are some questions to ask yourself and answer:
1. Â What beliefs about myself are the most painful?
2. What behaviors are results of these beliefs?
3. Â Are these behaviors creating happiness and love in your life?
4. Â Do you notice how your behaviors are blocking love from coming into your life?
5. Â What thoughts would you have think and fully believe about yourself to attract your perfect love?
6. Â How would you feel knowing your worthy of true love?
7. Â How would you act if you deeply and completely believed you are lovable?
You are lovable and worthy of giving and receiving love. Â You already have everything you need to attract the love of your life. Â Be willing to see it and take the first step to getting the love you want. Â Awaken your heart to love; your true love is waiting!
Master Certified Life Coach